(cont’d) I’m questioning whether i should keep talking to this guy. I know i love him, and i know he loves me, but i’m saving myself and he wants me to have sex with him. His ex is constantly trying to talk to him and get him to go out with her again. i know he doesnt like her, but she is an “easy fuck” and i don’t think she has a problem with that.. I’m afraid he might actually try to get with her just for the sex but i’m worried this could actually be his true character showing. what should i do?

In these kinds of situations, I think the fact that there are some obstacles in the way of you two being together, when that happens, it’s usually because it’s not meant to be, at least not at that time. If he’s kind of pressuring you with sex, too, that’s never good—it kind of looks like that’s all he wants, because if he wanted to date you just to date you and be with you, he would respect your wish to save yourself and not have it as a sort of criteria. (It also doesn’t help that he’s a 16-year old boy, though.)

And there’s no rush for relationships. If you don’t feel comfortable with the idea before a relationship has even started, it’s not a great basis to start one on. And I think if you two are meant to have anything, you’ll come back to each other in that way and it will work out.