Anonymous asked: I'm so confused right now, i had a thing with this guy who i really thought liked me, we hung outthat 'im not worth trying for' his words but he wants to hang out more, like could he make up his mind? i really like him! he's the first guy i've really liked since my last relationship where i got cheated on and since then i've found it so hard to trust, i dont even know what to do, like do i tell him how i feel or just leave it and he told my friends he wanted to ask me out and now he's decided Esteen.org

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I'm so confused right now, i had a thing with this guy who i really thought liked me, we hung outthat 'im not worth trying for' his words but he wants to hang out more, like could he make up his mind? i really like him! he's the first guy i've really liked since my last relationship where i got cheated on and since then i've found it so hard to trust, i dont even know what to do, like do i tell him how i feel or just leave it and he told my friends he wanted to ask me out and now he's decided

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More often than not, the best thing to do is to come right out and say it. Tell him how you feel, ask him if he feels the same way, and depending on the answer, you’ll go from there. For guys like that, who seem to go from one to the other, it’s best to put them on the spot, otherwise you’ll never know how he feels. For your sake, you should find out how he feels so that you can figure out the next step.

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