May 2013
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Anonymous asked: Is 15 too young to get breast cancer? It's just that I'm really worried :(
Anonymous asked: to the 18 year virgin... sex isnt everything.. wait for the guy who is willing to wait for you anyone else isnt worth it
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Anonymous asked: ok this might sound stupid but its a real problem to me and i cant really talk about it to anyone. i'm a girl, 18, and i'm a virgin (have "tried" to have sex twice but it hasn't worked i think i was too nervous idk) and i really don't know what to do about it. my bf left me because of it (he didnt give an explanation but it was pretty obvious) and right now i feel...
Anonymous asked: i cant stop mutilating my body. i can't stop harming myself, and its getting out of control. i don't just do razor cuts, i legitimately mutilate myself, its disgusting. Im not depressed of anything tho. Today i was at work and i was thinking about what i am going to do in the school holidays, nothing excited me, but when i remembered that when i get home i can cut myself, i got happy, i...
Anonymous asked: Hello, i've been trough some problems and i hope you can help me, i'm losing my hopes.I suffered bullying for the past 2 years and i've cutted myself since then. I've stopped sometimes but it's impossible for me to definitly stop.I made a depression test and it said that i have very high levels of major depression and seasonal affective disorder. I don't know what to...
Anonymous asked: School makes m feel so fucking stupid. Are we honestly gonna use any of this in real life? I think it's such a waste of time.
March 2013
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Anonymous asked: So my boyfriend asked me out on valentines day, I know we haven't been dating for very long.. but he left for Cali to go see his dad last night.. We had sex the first time on Saturday, and he cheated on me that night after we had sex; with someone who knew we were dating, she was dating someone, and I thought she was my friend. His aunt likes me and she forced him to tell me he cheated before...
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Anonymous asked: I want to give support to my friends, especially the ones who have to go through a lot, like one who had a suicidal sister and the rest of her family became suicidal, but I don't know how. Like I just say that I'm there if they want to talk, but I don't know what to say or what to do sometimes. What can I do to give them what they need especially because they were there for me?
Anonymous asked: To the person who wrote about her ex boyfriend with suicidal thoughts, please pray for him
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Anonymous asked: I really need help. This guy I was dating for about 2 months just broke up with me. And I'm scared he is going to do something like suicide.. He was always so negative. He talked about having thoughts about killing a lot of people and he said he would like to one day blow up the school he hated the most. I NEED HELP. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. :,(
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Anonymous asked: My girlfriend and I are going through a weird patch. She misses flirting with other girls and I just want her to be happy. It's breaking my heart and I have no clue what to do. I just need advice.
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Anonymous asked: So this new guy moved to my school this year, and he is so nice, he's good looking, and we've been talking recently because he catches my bus and train. On Monday he said I was pretty and usually smiles at me when we pass each other. Should I take this as a sign and make a move? Or wait for him too make the first real move?
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Anonymous asked: so this is kinda confusing but basicly im dating this guy and we were really good friends before we dated, we were in band together but yeah we're dating now and i dont really think i want to date him anymore.. i like our relationship better as friends? i do have feelings for this other guy though.. im not sure how to tell my bf that i wanna be just friends. let him down easy? thanks :)
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Anonymous asked: How do you get over someone who have had a crush on for almost four years?
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Anonymous asked: About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend because my parents forced me to. They hated him but I thought he was a good guy. Now, a couple days ago my mom finally apologized for the whole thing. Lately I've been thinking about him alot; and, I was thinking about writing hi,. However, when I looked at his tumblr (he hardly uses anymore) he used to claim that I was a stalker. I have no idea...
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Anonymous asked: I don't know if I'm depressed or just making things up in my mind but for the past few months I've felt like a failure, worthless, I want to sleep all the time, I can't focus on school, I eat all the time. Sometimes I feel like I'm going insane. When I'm really upset I scratch myself or make small cuts with a clothes hanger because I just need to hurt. But sometimes I...
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Anonymous asked: I fell in love with my bestfriend. I led him on sort of for some guy that treated me so terribly. now I really want my bestfriend back & I wanna be with him in a relationship. but I don't think he really digs me anymore ya know? he said if I changed for him he would maybe consider.. but I don't know if that's the right thing to do? what do you think?
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Anonymous asked: Why did my best friend suddenly stop talking to me after seeing a girl? He lied about it too and denies that it's his gf. I always see her posting status up and calling him her bf. he still occasionally txt saying he misses me. I don't get it, please explain what's happening :(
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whaateva asked: okay so idk what is going on but i need your help. so there’s this boy i’ve liked since last year and every time (usually every time) i walk by him, he gives me this stare and it’s been going on since last year and idk what to do. like yeah i know i should talk to him and i’ve tried but when i talk to him he can’t even look at my face and it makes me so uncomfortable....
February 2013
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Anonymous asked: I've thought for the longest time that i loved this guy. for YEARS. well honestly i still feel like i do... It's always been like whenever he wants to date, i don't and whenever i want to date, he doesn't. i don't know.. i wanna date, but i feel like maybe i'm not ready. He's 16 and I'm 15. I've known him my whole life, and we've always liked ach...
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Anonymous asked: (im a girl) and ive been really close friends with this gay guy for ages. our conversations are always really jokey, and people always think it's flirting, but because he was gay, it was obviously just funny talk, but yesterday he told me he is bi, and im not sure how to behave now. also, im not sure if he's flirting with me, or if its just me over-thinking things. at the moment, im...
Anonymous asked: Hi, so my friend (heytherelinnea) has had some pretty shitty stuff happen to her lately (most recently her boyfriend of two years cheated on her with her "best friend" four times and her mom was just about to kick her out of the house) and she's been extremely depressed, can you help me cheer her up?
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Anonymous asked: i've been flirting with a guy ,but i dont have feelings for . hes trying his best to change my mind about dating him but i dont feel the same way . i dont know what to do anymore but i dont want him to ask me out
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Anonymous asked: i have this bestfriend, we've been close for a while and we talk all the time and tell eachother everything, they'll talk to me for about a week then stop, then start again and just mess with my mind, should i just stop being as close with them or what?
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Anonymous asked: PART ONE. I recently went through a very tough first breakup. We were reaching our six month marker and I knew that this meant we would last for as long as we thought imaginable. Everyday we would confess our love for one another and express our feelings, we would kiss eachother goodbye at school, and then get home at talk for hours over social media that night.
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Anonymous asked: Is seeing a psychologist/therapist helpful when one is depressed and suicidal? Because I don't know if it would actually help me and I know they're expensive and I'm afraid to ask my parents.
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Anonymous asked: A couple of weeks ago I started seeing this guy. We were hanging out and eventually had sex a few times. Though, he's 21 and I'm 16. When we first started hanging out, without instigation, kept telling me that he liked me. He then told me that he wanted a relationship even though he wasn't mentally able to be in one. Though last time we had sex, he hasn't really spoken many...
Anonymous asked: ok so there this guy i like, but he likes another girl, cause he talks about her in front off me and so tonight at formal he kept looking for her and she perfect and skinny and well im me and i cried for a long time i don't know if i should keep loving him or just stop its so hard pls answer this back.
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Anonymous asked: I need to ask my mom for birth control, I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for just over 6 months. I don't know how to ask and how to brig it up but I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him and were crazy about each other. What do i say ??? :/
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Anonymous asked: Is it weird that I'm almost 16 and have never had my first kiss or a boyfriend? Whenever I'm around guys i get super nervous and scared. also a lot of my friends have already had boyfriends.
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Anonymous asked: So there's this guy I've had a crush on since forever, and I don't know what to do anymore we use to be the best of friends but now we ignore each other and even avoid each other i still like him though but I'm sick of his games with other girls and leading me on then leaving me. deep down I really really like him I've tried letting go but I can't what do I do?!? Do I...
Anonymous asked: I've been talking to this guy and he's really taking his time, we talk all the time and we just started hanging out recently but he hasn't made any moves. I like him and I think he likes me, but I feel like it isn't going anywhere. I'm ok with going slow but we're going to college in a few months and I want to enjoy this time right now. but I feel stuck, what should I...
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Anonymous asked: i love a girl how can i know if she love me too?
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Anonymous asked: Part one: so there's this guy that I've known and spoken to for about 3 or 4 years, he's so lovely but we live 7 hours away from each other and only met once. But apart from that he tells me how much he loves me, and I do too and he tells me I'm the girl he wants to marry and every time I think about him and I not talking I cry, I'm crying now just writing it. But recently...
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Anonymous asked: .I used to love this guy. Me=heartbroken. And then he says to me on Facebook (2 years later) one day randomly that he wishes he could make it up to me. I didn't know what he meant but we talked and he said that he would be content with me (he said before he woulnt) I've never had a boyfriend and he hasn't had a girlfriend. I don't want to start liking him again in case he hurts...
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Anonymous asked: (I am a girl) I'm 19, and my best friend (20 years) and I always been attracted to each other without both of us knowing. We have been friends for more than 2 years. We want to try to have a 'love' relationship, and we both think it's going to work out but do you have any advice for me to make sure to not ruin everything? LIke things I should do/should say? Thank you. <3
Anonymous asked: Is it really worth chasing after a crush you don't know if you have a chance with?
Anonymous asked: So there is this boy at uni and for about 3 months we would play ping pong together but never actually talk, I managed to find out his name and add him on facebook but still hadn't spoken to him. We kept playing ping pong here and there until one day I had the courage to actually talk to him and we had a good conversation and when he left for class he said goodbye and said my name. Now i...
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Anonymous asked: My girlfriend is not very smart, and she does not get jokes at all. This is what I base most a relationships on, being comfortable and laughing with one another, but after 9 months it's almost unbearable. What should I do?
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anndisasterr asked: I respect your opinion though I disagree. But I feel like its very bold and blanket statement to deem something wrong when there should be no right or wrong. Sure, it's temporary, but sometimes it's all people have. It doesn't mean you're running from things. I dealt with what I went through and I cut, I used many ways to cope. I don't do it anymore because I've...
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medievalwitch asked: I agree with you 100% on self harming, it is wrong, it helps at the time, but like you said,its like a drug addiction, a high, after you cut, all the issues are still their, cutting may help release the tension or pain you are feeling for that time..but it wont make it disappear, and when you finally over come self harm, you will have those scars forever,i used to cut for years, but it is the...
letsgogoyubari asked: There is no right or wrong reason for self harm. There shouldn't be a reason and no one should give one. As someone who has dealt with self harm, I can say that it is a painful experience. Not just physically, but emotionally. It scares me when people judge me for it, it makes me angry when people pity me for it, and it definitely bothers me when people ask me why I would do this to myself....
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anndisasterr asked: No offense, but I find it very ignorant of you to say cutting is wrong. When it comes to how an individual treats their own body, there should be no right or wrong when it's their own choice. Sure maybe people don't agree or understand it, but that doesn't mean it's wrong when it feels so right to some people. I uses to self harm for a very long time because it felt right to...
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Anonymous asked: Why do people act like cutting is illegal
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Anonymous asked: I have a friend who killed himself about a month ago. To say he was a genius would have been an insult to his intelligence. He was far brighter. To compare him to Van Gogh or Da Vinci would have been an insult. He was far more creative. I aspired to be more like him. Every day. And he's gone. And I can't stop thinking about him. And to be honest, i'm seriously considering...
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whaateva asked: How do I get over a boy who is the total opposite of what I thought he was but I still have feelings for him because I'm like 99.7% sure he likes me but is too afraid to say anything
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Anonymous asked: About a month ago, my best friend officially got a boyfriend (we're in grade 12). Now all she does is hang out with him and she is so consumed with him that she has no time for me, or time to listen to anything I have to say. She is also bringing him to our graduation ceremony, banquet, AND afterparty, and to be honest I'm not looking forward to being the third wheel at my own grad....
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Anonymous asked: My friend and I think we are in love, only he lives 3 hours away. It is possible that true love will bring us back together one day? After school finishes? We see each other on occasion, a few times a year. Our feelings for each other dont seem to disappear. We still date others, but we both tell each other its not the same. I do love him. And im willing to wait till we finish school - i really...
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it-means-no-worriesx33 asked: so my bestfriend is in this relationship for 2 years, we are only sophomores and this guy is a senior, me and my best friend barely hang out anymore because of this guy & recently I went over to her house & they were fighting again, usually fighting everytime Im with her and she says it gets worse when Im not there, and they fight over things like when he doesn't get to see her,...
